I spent 5+ years in the Marine Corps. It changed me, and there was a ripple effect.
When I was in college, and my wife can testify, I was a slob. My room was more than messy. My bathroom was frightening. Before that, my mom made me do my own laundry because I would not pick up my room. When she saw that I was ok with that deal, she made me keep the door to my room shut so my younger siblings would not see my bad example.
Then I enlisted. The Marines are fanatical about cleanliness – from the head (bathroom), to personal hygiene, to our uniforms. Everything should be perfect all the time. I was married after 1 year in the Corps. For the sake of my marriage, I had to get over my heartburn because my wife did fold my undershirts 6″ x 6″.
In fact, I took my 3 kids to see the Marine recruiter earlier tonight after we ate dinner. I was actually embarrassed walking in there because I did not shave today. Sheesh.
The Marines are also fanatical about systems. Everything they do is thought out and time tested. There is no reinventing the wheel. The reason we are so passionate about systems is they produce a predictable and desired outcome.
So many settle for mediocrity. I have done it myself. I despise that place. You can see others around you excelling at what they do – what you could do. You may find yourself asking, “Is it even possible for me to have that kind of success?” Good question.
I started playing the guitar when I was 14 years old. I was looking for something that I could be good at. I had already realized it wasn’t going to be sports. I took a few months of lessons and then kept playing. By the time I got to college, I was OK at best.
Then Dave Matthews and Tim Reynolds played a show at my college. They were incredible. Two guys with their acoustic guitars on stage playing. No band. Just them.
I heard a great story this week that has had my wheels turning ever since. I’m going to share it with you in a minute.
But first, I want you to consider how you talk to yourself – in your head. I think I’ve heard someone call this self-talk.
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The way I talk to myself holds me back all the time. My first couple of years in commercial real estate, it held me way back. I would talk myself out of making a call. I would decide for a prospect that they weren’t interested…before I made the call.
This self-talk makes a difference. What does the talk in your head sound like? Consider this story.
A rich oil sheik decided he wanted to learn how to play golf. So he built one of the world’s best golf courses. It was perfect – gorgeous.
The sheik then invited a US club pro to spend two weeks with him on his new golf course giving him lessons. The pro accepted the invitation.
So the Sheik sent his private jet to collect the pro and bring him to the Middle East. Once there, the pro spent two weeks in complete opulence. Everything that he could have wanted was available to him.
The pro loved the course and very much enjoyed teaching the Sheik.
After 2 weeks, the pro was boarding the private jet to go back to America. The Sheik, being very pleased with his two weeks of lessons, offered the pro anything.
The pro responded and told the Sheik that this had been the best 2 weeks of his life. His hospitality and generosity were payment enough.
The Sheik insisted, asking the pro if he collected anything.
If you are reading this blog, it is likely that you want more. You want to improve your productivity, your prospecting, your presence, your something. Nobody gets up every morning with the goal of being mediocre. Ultimately, you want to dominate your market. But the truth is, you can’t.
My kids are in the driveway right now playing basketball with the neighbor kids. When I was their age, the Bad Boys version of the Detroit Pistons were winning championships. I remember playing in the driveway and pretending I was Isaiah Thomas and Joe Dumars.
I wanted to dominate a basketball game the way they did. But I topped out at 5’7” with less than average athletic ability and a suspect jump shot. I was never going to dominate a basketball game.
And you are never going to dominate your market because of these 7 reasons.
7 Reasons You Will Never Dominate Your Market
My dad started developing self-storage units somewhere around 1980. The name of this company is AAA Rent-A-Space. About the same time, my mom had one of four or five Century21 franchises in our town. The name was Century21 A Barron Company. Both of these companies were named so they would be listed first in the yellow pages. How do you think the yellow pages business is doing right now?
One of the comments I hear most often as I engage with experienced brokers across the country is this. “These kids are coming out of nowhere and taking my market share.” They are lamenting that the presence that took them a decade or more to develop is being eroded by younger, new to the business brokers who are creating dominating digital presence.
Presence is being known – being top-of-mind. You know you have it when the most influential and connected people in your market are sending business your way. You know you have it when people are glad you called and don’t need to ask who you are.
It is no secret that commercial real estate is behind the curve when it comes to digital presence adoption. We have an industry that is dominated by white men who aren’t in their 20’s or 30’s anymore. That is just a demographic fact (though I see this changing.)
There is a reason why younger brokers are having this kind of success. What used to take a decade or more to build, can now be accomplished in a year or two. But this is not just a younger person’s game. The landscape has changed. Anyone can take advantage of this powerful aspect of building your business.
In fact, everyone in a sales or service profession should create a digital presence. Here’s why.
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I remember the first day after I was honorably discharged from the Marine Corps. It was the day I started working with my dad in the commercial real estate industry. I knew nothing beyond what I picked up from growing up with two parents in real estate. I didn’t have a license. I didn’t have business cards. I was as green as they come. All I wanted to do was hide in my office.
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I remember having the nagging thought: “Who would want to work with you when they could work with your dad?” It took me two years to get over that self-doubt.
It is one thing to gain self-confidence, and that takes time. Your industry also needs to gain confidence in you. You need to become known as an expert in your field. I like to talk about this as dominant market presence. Are you, your company, or your product the first thing that pops into potential clients’ or customers’ minds?
Additionally, if you still haven’t bought the idea that you should be blogging or need help setting up and launching your blog, read this post on the subject
I believe a blog is the quickest way to gain this dominant market presence. You can become known as an expert, gain dominant market presence, and cultivate the next generation of clients and customers by blogging in these 4 categories.
Blog on These 4 Categories
- Deal Stories – Stories are an incredible way to engage with your audience. They often allow you to connect with your readers on an emotional level. This invites your readers into your post and keeps them there. Stories of real situations are also valuable to your potential future clients. Plus, stories allow you to demonstrate your expertise without tooting your own horn. Your deal stories should include these 3 sections:
- Situation – Give the context of what was going on. Why were you hired? What challenges was your client facing? Giving the context allows your readers to relate.
- Steps – What did you do to solve your clients problems? What did you do to help maximize your client’s best interests? Share what happened, but be careful not to sound like a commercial.
- Solution – Here is where you describe the results. This is the culmination of the story. If done well, the reader will have a better understanding of the service or product you provide and how that product or service can benefit them.
- News – Blogging about the news demonstrates that you are in-the-know about what is happening in your industry. However, the news can be boring. You do not want to just regurgitate what your readers are hearing from other sources. If a certain news topic is becoming a topic of conversation at the water cooler, you should blog about it. Demonstrate your expertise and experience by giving your take. A word of caution: only blog about a news topic if it is applicable to your industry.
- Market trends – This topic can also be boring so be careful. I would not blog about market trends more than once a quarter. However, demonstrating that you are aware of market trends is important. For some of your readers, this information will be valuable. It puts you in the position to become a trusted resource for timely information.
- 101 Topics – In Commercial Real Estate, every successful investor did their first deal at some point. Donald Trump did not come out of the womb as an expert. He had to learn. By blogging about the basics of your industry, you have the opportunity to educate the next generation of players in your industry. In the next 20 years, we are about to see the biggest transfer of wealth in the history of the world. By educating the next generation of your future clients, who do you think will be top-of-mind when the next generation has a need for your product or service for the first time? You will!
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